First, you need to decide on what you want to be in life. Many people focus on what the want to have and what they want to do. But this is not how you win in life. You need to focus on your inner self. You would first need to know what you would like to be. What kind of story do you want to leave behind? What kind of value, or service did you want to offer? Who are you when you go to bed at night and wake up in the morning?
When you know what you want to be. Then you have to take the small action steps in the present moment to be the person you want. This does not mean changing drastically overnight. This is a process, a step by step day to day internal searching for yourself. Spend time alone and listen to the silence, it will speak to you. You will feel it is right, instead of thinking it is right. Continue on your path of least resistance, and take on action steps that bring you the most joy in life.
When you take small action steps that you really enjoy, you will begin to see enthusiasm around you. Remember that the enthusiasm around you is what you created. You create the life you desire, with every thought in action. When you are immersed in your being the doing will take care of the rest. Dong what brings you joy feels amazing and soon enough events and people become attracted to your new found energy. Trust that the joy alone is enough will lead you to be a winner in life. Whatever brings you joy, you will find that your true self becomes evident, and the next thing you know you are winning in life.